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	<title>Comments on: Ireland &#038; USA Little Differences #24: Pub Talk</title>
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	<description>Kansas City Irish Festivals, Music, Pubs, &#38; Events by an Artist in Ireland</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 05:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: fearraigh75 [TweetBack]</title>
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		<dc:creator>fearraigh75 [TweetBack]</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Nov 2010 10:43:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[via Twitter]

Ha! There's a great line in this French novel: http://amzn.to/bLUp48 "We were drunk enough to find everything we said fascinating".</description>
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<p>Ha! There&#8217;s a great line in this French novel: <a href="http://amzn.to/bLUp48" rel="nofollow">http://amzn.to/bLUp48</a> &#8220;We were drunk enough to find everything we said fascinating&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Ellen</title>
		<link>http://irishkc.com/ireland-usa-little-differences-24-pub-talk.htm#comment-54927</link>
		<dc:creator>Ellen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2007 00:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I recall on a message board for a local (Kansas City) music performer, one the performer reads, saying that his show was less good than usual.  There was one particular person on the message board who got on me for being negative.  Never mind that I said it was still a great show.

That person obviously lives by that rule of being positive.  Though imperfectly, since he's perfectly willing to insult me for not living by his code.

The reason I posted what I did was because I felt if I didn't say it, then my compliments in other posts about other shows meant nothing.  If I'm not free to be honest, the praise means nothing.  Praise is meaningful when it comes out of honesty.

Thankfully, the performer himself was not at all bothered by what I said.

So, I guess I'm not a normal American.  For me, being honest comes ahead of being positive.  And I know people appreciate compliments when they know those positive words are honest opinions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recall on a message board for a local (Kansas City) music performer, one the performer reads, saying that his show was less good than usual.  There was one particular person on the message board who got on me for being negative.  Never mind that I said it was still a great show.</p>
<p>That person obviously lives by that rule of being positive.  Though imperfectly, since he&#8217;s perfectly willing to insult me for not living by his code.</p>
<p>The reason I posted what I did was because I felt if I didn&#8217;t say it, then my compliments in other posts about other shows meant nothing.  If I&#8217;m not free to be honest, the praise means nothing.  Praise is meaningful when it comes out of honesty.</p>
<p>Thankfully, the performer himself was not at all bothered by what I said.</p>
<p>So, I guess I&#8217;m not a normal American.  For me, being honest comes ahead of being positive.  And I know people appreciate compliments when they know those positive words are honest opinions.</p>
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		<title>By: Waldo Oiseau</title>
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		<dc:creator>Waldo Oiseau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Aug 2007 17:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You sound like a fortune cookie.

Ah yes, now I remember. Something about how I wanted to be immortalized in bright colors. It must have been that second beer talking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You sound like a fortune cookie.</p>
<p>Ah yes, now I remember. Something about how I wanted to be immortalized in bright colors. It must have been that second beer talking.</p>
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		<title>By: eolai</title>
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		<dc:creator>eolai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 22:05:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Medbh - it's definitely a significant cultural difference and a tricky one to broach without sounding mean-spirited. So I try and counter it with pure negativity.

Primal - Typo? No, the power of the written word. Or the e-written word, strictly speaking. Ominous but unsurprising that Ireland would start catching up. I blame the smoking ban. People need to talk nonsense - driving them out of the pubs is driving nonsense out there too.

Oiseau - assuming all goes to the unconfirmed plan, as the day gets nearer it's more apparent that there is much not great about the timing of the move. You said you wanted to pose for a painting. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Medbh - it&#8217;s definitely a significant cultural difference and a tricky one to broach without sounding mean-spirited. So I try and counter it with pure negativity.</p>
<p>Primal - Typo? No, the power of the written word. Or the e-written word, strictly speaking. Ominous but unsurprising that Ireland would start catching up. I blame the smoking ban. People need to talk nonsense - driving them out of the pubs is driving nonsense out there too.</p>
<p>Oiseau - assuming all goes to the unconfirmed plan, as the day gets nearer it&#8217;s more apparent that there is much not great about the timing of the move. You said you wanted to pose for a painting. <img src='http://irishkc.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Waldo Oiseau</title>
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		<dc:creator>Waldo Oiseau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 18:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Crap, I'm one of those totally literal persons! Oh god, did I say I wanted to buy a painting? :)

Spyder's blog says you're moving back to Ireland? And we just met. Ah, such is life.

- Cate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Crap, I&#8217;m one of those totally literal persons! Oh god, did I say I wanted to buy a painting? <img src='http://irishkc.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Spyder&#8217;s blog says you&#8217;re moving back to Ireland? And we just met. Ah, such is life.</p>
<p>- Cate</p>
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		<title>By: Primal Sneeze</title>
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		<dc:creator>Primal Sneeze</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 17:56:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To the right (and a little above) I see &lt;i&gt;Last Paintings Sold&lt;/i&gt;. Typo?

I feel your pain, Eolaí. In the last week alone I have been &lt;i&gt;given&lt;/i&gt; four contracts. All soberly made. None in a pub. Ireland is surely &lt;i&gt;catching up&lt;/i&gt; on the US.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To the right (and a little above) I see <i>Last Paintings Sold</i>. Typo?</p>
<p>I feel your pain, Eolaí. In the last week alone I have been <i>given</i> four contracts. All soberly made. None in a pub. Ireland is surely <i>catching up</i> on the US.</p>
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		<title>By: Medbh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Medbh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 16:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We had houseguests not long ago from Michigan and the guy used nothing but superlatives the entire visit.  Everything was "terrific," "fantastic," "excellent," and "super."  It drove me to fucking drink.  Finally, Mr. M called him on it (politely) and the guy was completely flummoxed.  He didn't get why we were disturbed by his inflated enthusiasms.  Fucking exhausting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had houseguests not long ago from Michigan and the guy used nothing but superlatives the entire visit.  Everything was &#8220;terrific,&#8221; &#8220;fantastic,&#8221; &#8220;excellent,&#8221; and &#8220;super.&#8221;  It drove me to fucking drink.  Finally, Mr. M called him on it (politely) and the guy was completely flummoxed.  He didn&#8217;t get why we were disturbed by his inflated enthusiasms.  Fucking exhausting.</p>
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		<title>By: eolai</title>
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		<dc:creator>eolai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:02:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's very kind of ya missus. Thank you.

Last night was enjoyable. More time and a little less harsh acoustics would have been nice too.

Blogroll updates all around, I feel.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s very kind of ya missus. Thank you.</p>
<p>Last night was enjoyable. More time and a little less harsh acoustics would have been nice too.</p>
<p>Blogroll updates all around, I feel.</p>
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		<title>By: Venus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Venus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 11:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was "wonderful" to meet you last night.  Your art is fantastic. If you don't mind I'm going to add your link to my blog roll. 
-V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was &#8220;wonderful&#8221; to meet you last night.  Your art is fantastic. If you don&#8217;t mind I&#8217;m going to add your link to my blog roll.<br />
-V</p>
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